Oh, getting spicy, dear Questioner! I am one of those pretentious arseholes that say, “I am a Christian; which is not a religion, but a relationship with Jesus.” I’m not trying to patronize or pretend to be something I am not, it is simply the truth. I have been a Christian since I was 26 years old, March of 2007, & have been worshipping within the Southern Baptist denomination ever since. I believe in a cerebral faith, I do not check my brain at the door to my religion, which is why I love Christianity.
When I look back, I can see the Lord throughout my life; He has been there, loving me & guiding me as much as I would allow. My mother took me from my Meemaw & Pappaw and moved us 90miles south to Dallas, Texas, which is a point of trauma that has effected my life profoundly. However, once I got to Dallas, He made it so I could start school early, being 4 years old in Kindergarten; I began school at Liberty Baptist Academy, with an awesome teacher named Mrs. Clark. My mom met a man, got married, and he was transferred several years later to Phoenix, Arizona, where my new dad wanted to place me in a Catholic school, as that was his religion, but there was a 2-year waiting list minimum on all the private Catholic schools, so it was public school for me.
The Lord was at work again, guiding our steps to Phoenix. He blessed me with a lovely best friend, Jessica, whose family practiced the Catholic faith, which was a plus for my dad. We were “holiday Catholic” for most of my growing up. I studied for Communion, Confirmation and everything, especially when Jessica was going through it, but my family never went to church enough for me to get Confirmed. In second grade I was once again blessed with an amazing teacher, Mrs. Peacock. That wonderful woman read to us daily, with the first book being The Lion, the Witch, & the Wardrobe, by C. S. Lewis, something that I doubt would be allowed now.
That effected my life so profoundly that I spent an inordinate amount of time sleeping in my closet, not realizing that I was really praying to God a great deal of the time. Religion, defined by Oxford, is the belief in and worship of a superhuman power or powers, especially a God or gods; a particular system of faith and worship. I suppose I check those boxes, but I still don’t think of true Christianity as a religion. Jesus didn’t have a religion, He came to abolish the Law; He worshipped the Lord, taught His Word, and spread His loving kindness throughout the land, living by example for us to follow into a relationship with the Lord.